December 6, 2007
Our Little Pray-er
November 23, 2007
10 Minutes to a Stronger Baby
ps. Chloe is wonderful and perfect! We are loving being parents!!
October 31, 2007
37 Weeks
October 11, 2007
Close Call
I come home, and ask "Did all the pictures fit on the flash drive?" Well it's not a very large memory, so he says no, and that he only saved the wedding and engagement pictures to it. Well guess what.... We have those already on CD! So that was pointless. So anyway, he gets the computer reloaded. Goes to check on the pictures..... And they're GONE!!! I don't know what to say at this point. All I can think is all my pictures are no more. I do have the ones I want to print from about the past 10-12 months online waiting to be printed. That's some comfort.
At this point JM feels terrible, of course. He had assured me they would still be there. So he goes hunting on my computer. And somehow, he finds all the pictures!! They were hidden away. So he's out of the dog house for tonight :)
ps. I'm going to add some pictures to flickr from the baby shower this weekend in just a little bit.
September 18, 2007
Week 33
Sorry for the downer post. I just wanted to vent. Week 33 isn't one I will look back on fondly....
September 3, 2007
Video
August 18, 2007
25 weeks down...
August 15, 2007
July 28, 2007
Barber Shop
The real adventure though comes in the care of the facial hair. This was the first time for me to get a shave from a barber with a straight blade, so that in itself was an adventure. I ended up with some Arab style sideburns and a short beard with some great lines. The only thing is my hair is too light to really pull it off right.
All this sounds normal, but the last step is the kicker. After shaving, there is always that little bit of peach fuzz on the top part of the cheek just below the eyes. I never bother to mess with it because it is not noticeable and it is very close to the eyes. But here they have a special way of removing that hair for nice, smooth cheeks all around. My friend who has lived here a while calls it the "black thread of death." What they do is they take a piece of string a make a triangle between their mouth and two fingers. Between the fingers it is a double string. He then basically rolls that part over the cheek bringing the two strings together and pulling back with mouth and fingers to pluck out the small pesky hairs. Needless to say, it can be a very painful experience. Because of this, when my Arab friend first told the barber to do it on me, he said "No, I think it will be too painful for him." But we convinced him in the end so that Michael and I could get the cultural experience. Of course it hurt, but it was not that bad. My Arab friend even said that he thinks I am strong because I did not flinch.
Now there is no way that words can adequately capture the process of the thread, so here are some pictures to help you get a better idea:

Typos
And to show that this is not a problem just for my wife, she has already made two corrections on my short little post during its composition, and I will make sure and run the spell check to catch any other mistakes that we might have missed.
I think the heat is getting to us.
Or maybe it is the city that sounds like a war zone outside. But don't worry, it is only fireworks, but it has been going on constantly all over the city for almost three hours now.
It's getting hot in here...
No wait, it's not getting hot. It is HOT!
I'm not sure what the temperature was today, but tomorrow it supposed to be 107. Today we went to the Balad which is the downtown area of the city where you can buy a lot stuff for cheap (for example: I bought season 2 and 3 of Lost plus a movie for 11 JD or about $15). Anyway it was really really hot walking around down there. I had planned to go eat with the rest of the group but it was just too hot and they were going to do more shopping afterwards and I just didn't want to be in that heat. So to escape the heat B and I joined up with our husbands in the nice air conditioned van and managed to find ourselves in a few air conditioned buildings like KFC and Safeway. JM and I considered going to Starbucks just to be able to sit in the air conditioning this evening, because our apartment is HOT, but we're going to brave it and watch a movie here. Anyway, thinking about missing air conditioning made me think of other things that are going to be really nice to have when we get home.....
real milk
the freedom of my own car that has air conditioning! ( a lot time the taxi drivers don't use their air)
time to cook a meal rather than eat fast food
not having to turn on the hot water 30 minutes before you want to use it ( but now that it's so hot, we take cold showers to cool down!)
seeing our families
not having to catch a taxi
having lines you actually wait in when you are paying for something or ordering at a fast food place ( this is probably my only pet peeve of this culture. They are impatient when it comes to waiting in lines! You could be waiting to order for 5 minutes and some person will just walk up in front of you.)
flushing the toilet paper (rather than throwing it in the trash, for some reason you can't flush it here)
no water restrictions
taking showers in the mornings because I won't have to be fresh to go out at night
July 8, 2007
Fireworks in the Sky
June 14, 2007
Miracles in Packing (Revisited)
June 11, 2007
picture update
Miracles in Packing
This summer marks a new adventure for Jessica and I: traveling overseas together. This means we got to pack together (or rather I got to watch my wife put all the stuff in the suitcase and tell her what not to leave out, maybe I should have helped more). When planning on what all to take and how to get it there, Jessica's first suggestion was that we would both pack in her suitcase. But I, knowing how large her suitcase was, and not wanting to haul it all over the world, suggested that we pack in my suitcase because it was smaller and more manageable. Well, to cut out all the gory details, my wonderful wife, packed all our clothes and other travel necessities in that one suitcase and a carry on size suitcase. If it weren't for my love of books, we might not even need to take our backpacks, but at least they are full of things to keep us entertained for those long hours in cramped airplane seats. So in the end I am very thankful that we found a way to pack so light, especially since I have a pregnant wife and I will probably be deemed the family bellhop.
We leave tomorrow, fly for a few hours, stop for a few more, fly for many more hours and eventually we will be at our final destination. Please keep us in your prayers as we travel and hopefully everything will run smoothly, and the next time you hear from us, we will be on the other side of the world. What fun.
jm
June 4, 2007
Silence
I said at the end of the semester that I wanted to spend some time reading blogs, mainly for the purpose of catching up on the culture of the day. I've spent the last semester studying the importance of culture and thought that I would engage in some hands on learning through the world of online blogs. I have made attempts to live up to my ambition, but there is just something about books that draws me in. In the time that I had set out to read blogs, I have already read two books. So even when the semester is over I cannot seem to escape reading.
I have done better at escaping writing though. I did spend the week after finals fine tuning a paper to submit for publication, but other than that, this is the first thing that I have written since the semester ended. It has been a much needed break because April was filled with papers. It really is a good thing that I enjoy writing, otherwise I might not survive school.
I have learned, however, that I have an uncanny ability of filling up my time with activities. Just because the semester came to an end did not mean that I got to slow down. Instead I practically bumped up to full time at the paint store and worked over 4o hours a week. Although this took a lot out of me, the paychecks look much nicer than when I was putting in 25 hr/week. I have come to enjoy working at Sherwin-Williams and I have always felt it was the practical side of my education. Beside learning about paint, I learn about all kinds of people and what life is like for them. It teaches me many valuable lessons that are applicable for ministry. In fact, I often tell my wife that one day I am going to write a book called "All I Learned about Ministry, I Learned in a Paint Store."
Work is now over for the summer. As much as I hate to leave those guys and girls to fight the summer rush, I am looking forward to going back to the Middle East with my wife. There is nothing like eating falafel everyday for breakfast and hanging out with Arabs drinking tea and coffee all evening. And on top of it all, this time I get to take my favorite person along with me. (by the way she is reading over my shoulder as I write this). Hanging out with the wife in the desert sounds like great fun. So stay tuned for the epic adventures of the Bouchers as they travel the world over. JM
May 30, 2007
School's Out!!!!!!!
But it was pretty hectic.... yesterday after lunch, we were given the task of making a video to send in to Extreme Home Makeover. You see, we are moving into different buildings next year that are on the same campus of the middle school. Well the buildings have to be renovated. The main building doesn't need much, and renovations are underway. But the Math and Science building is a different story! It needs A LOT of work and we don't have the funding for it. So basically since I'm the math teacher, I don't have a classroom next year! Great! So we have made an attempt with the makeover thing. I'm not really sure that our video is that great, but we'll see....
After filming the video all morning, we got to go bowling and that was a lot of fun.... I actually scored better than the boys playing next to us! But they are 15 and probably have been bowling once in their life!
I really got on here to say we are leaving for the middle east in less than 2 weeks!!
We'll be pretty busy up until we leave.....
May 22, 2007
great deals
We did a little impromptu shopping tonight. My car has been in the shop over the weekend and it was ready today, so we drove down to Temple to pick it up. On the way back, JM wanted to stop in Barnes and Noble to look for a journal, and I suggested stopping by Old Navy to look for him a messenger bag for the summer.....
Well we get to the shopping center and as we are walking up to Old Navy, there is a Rack Room Shoes. I have been on the hunt for the classic grey New Balance shoes, and have had NO luck. So thought why not stop in? Of course they didn't have them either, but we looked around anyway. I came across another pair of shoes I had been considering getting for the summer, and they were on sale!! Woohoo! So I decide to get them. They were only $20 and that's half of what I wanted to pay for the New Balances. I'll just have to wear my old ones on our weekend trips this summer.... Anyway, we get to the check out and they ring up $11.99!! So with tax I ended up paying about $13 bucks for those shoes.
So we head on to Old Navy. At first we really didn't see any back packs or men's bags, so we kind of parted and looked at clothing. I come back to John Mark and he's found a great messenger bag! It's not on sale though :( But since he really needs it, and it's getting close to the summer he decided to get it. Well we check out and the bag rings up half off!! Amazing!
High five to me for suggesting a stop at Old Navy!
May 14, 2007
picture update
May 10, 2007
is it summer yet??
13 more days of school for me!!
-2 days of school for JM (congrats on all A's!!)
33 days until we go to the M.E. !!!!!!!!!!
a lot of days until I have a baby.......
Speaking of the baby, we can't come up with a middle name for Chloe..... any suggestions?
April 29, 2007
this week in the life of JM and Jessica
Other things in our lives....
I'm officially wearing maternity pants :( Kind of stinks because that means I have to pay money to buy them! I tried on a friend's maternity clothes but the pants just didn't work. So I've bought myself 2 pairs of pants that will hopefully take me through the end of the school year and into the summer a little ways. I have been wearing skirts to work a whole lot lately due to this issue of the expanding waist line. But I don't think I'm gaining too much weight too fast so that's good. We'll see how much I weigh at my next doctors appt....
John Mark is finished with class!!!!! He has two take home finals and then one in class. One of his papers he did this semester will probably be published in the Truett Journal. His teacher really liked it and said that there's not enough written on the topic. I would tell you the title but it's some long name that maybe only 10% of you would understand. Basically it's about the Incarnation and Missions. Maybe that's enough.
Things seem to be going well otherwise. I'm not feeling as sick as I was. It seems to be fading. I did have a horrible headache today though. And my emotions go up and down at the drop of a hat. But John Mark has been wonderful through it all! It is great!!!!!
It's time for bed. I'm out.
April 19, 2007
The word is out!
- Was it planned? not by us, God had it all planned out!
- Have you been sick? yes, most definitely. It seems to be tailing off now, but we'll see. I'm not one to throw up, so luckily I haven't had much of that action. I did have a cold last week with a lot of drainage and that made me more nauseous.
- Can you guys still go on your trip this summer? yep! We'll be traveling during my 2nd trimester, which is the perfect time to travel. And we have another praise about our trip, we have received all the money plus A LOT more than we need. So we'll be able to share and help out Jeremy with his trip cost.
- How far along are you? I'm officially 10 and half weeks into the pregnancy.
- Do ya'll want a boy or girl? Well we can only agree on a boy name, so a boy! No really, we are hoping for a boy. I think last night we may have agreed on a girl's first name, Chloe. Now we need a middle name. But if it's a boy it will be Joel Matthew.
April 13, 2007
I'm dreaming of a White Easter??
We had a white Easter here in Texas! Definitely a first for me!! It was really pretty as we drove to Dublin, although I slept most of the way. John Mark really enjoyed it though. He even got off work early so were able to get to Dublin sooner which is always nice!
That's all for now, I promise there will more next week!!
March 6, 2007
It's Official!!
Middle East!!!!
We're leaving June 12th and we're both ready to go now!
Also, on our return flight we have a 20 hour lay over in Madrid :) should be fun!
March 1, 2007
boys need girls
I sat out their work with their name on it at the spot I wanted them to sit at, so this gave me a chance to separate those who feed off each other. And it was great! I think having the girls mixed in, helped the boys stay more focus and want to be involved. So I'm thinking after this class that today is going to breeze. I can review them for their test tomorrow and they'll do great. Nope! I was wrong!
I get the boys back by themselves this morning. We start the review and they're like what are you saying?!?!?! Something we covered on Tuesday was as if they had never seen it before. Which leaves me very discouraged and thinking I have just wasted two weeks!!
So I have decided, that I never want to teach a class of all boys again! At least with this group of boys all together. They do so much better with the girls in there. And I know there are studies about this, but this is my conclusion today. Boys need girls. :)
ps. or maybe I'll just teach at an all girls school, that would be nice.....
February 23, 2007
Praises
My students went to the Waco Wetlands today, and we all had a blast. I'll post pictures from it tonight. I posted some pictures from San Antonio a couple of weeks ago, make sure you check those out..... just click on the picture box to the right..................................
February 8, 2007
story in pictures
We had a wonderful time groovin', singin', hollerin' with the boys on stage.
We were somewhat gypped though, because you see our dear Andy and Dave are very much loved by many and their show sold out! So a second show is added after the original show and thus our show was cut on time somewhat, but still we had fun and are left with Andy Davis songs play through our heads 24/7. By the way here are Andy and Dave....
After finishing off our sweet little, honey-covered people, we headed home to Waco. I got to bed oh, about 1:45am and went to church extremely tired that morning.
Special Thanks to Elaine for most of the pictures, Andy Davis' myspace for his picture, and myself for the Dave Barnes picture.
February 2, 2007
Yea! for Fridays!
We're gearing up for a busy weekend! Only thing is we both have colds, and that's not working too well for JM and all his reading he has to do. So please pray for him, he's getting kind of drained out.
We're hanging out with Jacob and Corrie and their kids from our church tonight. JM is making this AMAZING peanut butter chocolate cheesecake dessert, I can't wait! Oh speaking of church, we have new pastor! He started this week!
I'm going to a Dave Barnes concert Saturday night with some of my girls!! I think I'm more excited about just getting out with girl friends more than the concert. Davey is great, but I have seen him a few times :)
Then Sunday night, our Sunday school class is getting together for the Super Bowl. I couldn't care less about the Super Bowl, but it'll be fun to hang out with friends.
Be in prayer for our summer. We need all the prayer support we can get. It's going to be pretty expensive too, since we are married now. So we can't share an apartment to cut cost and that kind of thing. So please be in prayer for us.
I hope everyone has a wonderful weekend!!
ps. can you believe it's already February??
January 21, 2007
Adventures in New Clothes
I have found, though, that there can be a few downfalls in such a system that may lead to moments of temporary embarrassment, not with regard to outward appearance but to other matters. For instance: after Christmas Jessica went out shopping with a friend from church (having fun while I was working extra long days in the paint store) in order to get bargains during the after Christmas sales. Finding such anticipated bargains she came home with two shirts and a pair of pants for me to add to my closet.
Always when getting a new pair of pants I pay careful attention to the removal of all tags and stickers on the outer surface of the garment in order to ensure that there will be no embarrassment from the lingering piece of in store identification signifying price, size, or any other pertinent information. With said task completed I sought out to break in the new pair of jeans. The first day I wore them, I put them on after work to wear because we had company coming over. In the midst of cooking dinner I realized I had forgotten something so I had to run to the grocery store in order to pick up the needed item. When I walked into Brookshires the security alarm went off. I thought to myself this is rather odd. After I paid for my lone grocery item I made my way out and set the alarm off again. Now I was really perplexed, but passed it off quickly to return to cooking my meal.
The next time I wore the pants I found that the grocery store occurrence was not an isolated event. My activities for the day were a bit more extensive than the time before and I ended up setting off alarms at the post office, Mardel, and the Compass (a local Christian book store). At the post office I was quite confused as to what would make the alarm sound and I quietly bore the stares of the people in line as I waited to pick up my textbooks (which were running late). Finally I made the connection with the grocery store and after assessing the situations in my mind came to the conclusion that the only common factor in the two different days was the jeans. Finally when Jessica and I got home I took off the jeans for an investigation of the inner parts in order to find out what was causing the repeated disturbances with the retail security systems. It did not take long to find a little tag sown on the inside that said "remove before washing or wearing." From now on I will be sure to check not only the outside of my clothes but the inside for items needing to be removed before sporting the new goods.
JM
January 17, 2007
Baby, It's cold outside

At least, I have JM at home today too. Baylor is also closed. He is disappointed as well. What can I say, he's not your average bear :)
January 8, 2007
The Holidays are over....
The day after I got out of school, we left for Alabama and stayed there until the day of Christmas. It was so great to be back there! I didn't want to leave, but alas Texas was calling and we drove the 12 hours back to Dublin, TX. We just spent a day with JM's family and came back to Waco, so JM could put in some hours at the paint store. And man, did he rack up some hours over the holiday! It was nice-we were able to pay for all those gifts we bought! :)
We went back to Dublin for the weekend of New Year's, and had a lot of fun with some families from the Bouchers' church. JM and I had our first New Year's kiss :) On New Year's day, we went to visit the couple that we will be working with this summer in the Middle East. That was really neat and makes me even more ready to go!
This past week was soooo nice! I didn't have to do anything! Sleeping in and taking it easy. Oh I learned how to crotchet, and I'm making a scarf. So I've been working on that. We had some friends over and had a Lost Extravaganza :) We watched the first disc of the first season, trying to get some of the guys who came in late to the show caught up a bit. In case you didn't know, we get together with JM's old roommates on Wednesday nights to watch Lost. So since that night, I've watch way too much Lost! I haven't seen much of the first season either, so it was neat to watch it.
On a more serious note, JM's grandad is in the hospital and not doing too well. He has Parkinson's, but he went in for pneumonia and kind of gone down hill. So remember him and the family in your prayers please.